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Why Do Parents Abduct? According to the U.S. Department of Justice, over 354,000 children are kidnapped by a parent each year in divorce custody disputes. Some of the children are recovered or returned quickly while others may be on the run for years. Unfortunately many of these children are never found. Generally, people are concerned with the traumatic effects of these events on the child involved. However, both the searching parent and the abductor have many pending issues with which to deal. Some people believe that children "kidnapped" by their own parents are the lucky ones. In fact, because revenge is often the driving force for these abductions, the child may become subject to physical, sexual and mental abuse. While "When Families Are Torn Apart," is written by Mary Morrissey, the majority of the article is quoted from Geoffrey Greif and Rebecca Hegar. In the article, Greif and Hegar explain how they attempted to fill in the gap of information about the trauma of long-term abduction. Their findings appear in the book When Parents Kidnap. Each parent, child, and abductor may deal with the kidnapping differently. For some it is very frightful and requires years of psychological evaluation to overcome. According to Greif and Hegar, abducted children develop extremely close bonds with their abductors. Often the abductors lie to the children about the other parent. They may say that the other parent does not want the child or is dead. The longer the child is away the harder it is for everyone involved. At these times, professional help is strongly suggested. Issues for Parent - their own feelings about the abduction - helping them to be able to care for the child - helping them to bring the whole family together - helping them to help readjust the other children - helping them to cope with any odd behavior that may be exhibited by the abducted child - developmental changes of the child Issues for Children - trust - sexual abuse - anti-social behavior - why the child thinks the abduction occurs - dealing with the length of the abduction and the time that they missed with the rest of their family - experiences during the abduction - they child may have been brainwashed by the abducting parent - whether or not she wants to return to the abductor - being scared about the chance of being abducted again - + many others Issues for Abductor - anger against court - anger at the other parent - anger or confusion about the child's new outlook on them - sense of loss because they are not seeing the child - inability to move on with their life - concern about the child's welfare - guilt if they think the child has suffered - realizing the harm they have done to the child - dealing with the behaviors that led to the abduction The article, "Parents Who "Kidnap,'" recaps specific cases of parents attempting to recover abducted children. In the first case, Sandy Kearns is searching for her son Joshua who had been abducted by his father. Sandy's husband had run off with his son in the past. She was told by police that it was a civil matter and received no assistance. The next afternoon she was told by police officers that her husband had shot her son and then himself. The next case is about Cynthia and Julian Smith. Cynthia's son Julian was stolen away when he was two. Five years later, abused both sexually and emotionally, Julian was rescued by his mother. Julian has receive endless hours of psychological help that will have to be continued throughout his life. He is finally adapting to school and his new life and is making friends. The subsequent example involve... This is ONLY a preview of the article. If you would like to view the entire document, you must subscribe to Digital Term Papers. Please register below now! Digital Term Papers has over 63,000 essays, term papers, and book notes online. Many paper sites will charge you hundreds of dollars for a single paper. Digital Term Papers only charges $14.95 for a one month membership with instant account activation! Don't waste anymore time! Join NOW!!!
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